Swans are Evil

While I was cooking, Peter asked for some stories. Telling stories is a great way to keep kids occupied while I’m getting something done. And there are plenty of fairy tales and old Disney movies to pull from. I taught him one that I remember my mom teaching me and now he will says, “When the log rolls over we will die, we will die.” If you’ve heard the story, you will realize why that makes me laugh.

Trying to keep everyone including myself fed is far too much work. I wish food was optional. Seriously, I’m losing too much weight because I should eat a lot and I don’t.

Curtis does not share my problem. He is a big healthy boy at 29″ and 25 lbs. He loves food, although I think the whole process is too messy right now.

It was Joe’s birthday. We blew up balloons, hung streamers, ate cupcakes, blew out candles, and opened presents. Much of it was more for Peter than for Joe. But we were all happy.

Last Saturday we went disc golfing. It was a new place and not only did we disc golf, we saw a dog show, equestrian, and played at a cool park. A nice day, a little bit warm but the rain stayed away until we went home.

A couple of days ago we went to a park with water fowl. Peter was attacked by swans.

No harm done, luckily, but here is your warning. Stay away. These guys are mean.

Stepping Stones

I felt a bit bogged down yesterday. I’m trying to get Peter toilet trained. We are both stubborn…it might take awhile. I’m tired of living in an apartment. I would love a backyard and a garden. Carpet in the dining room is not a good idea. We spill far too often (including red koolaid). I would like to have an income. Curtis had been off his sleep schedule. I miss my family.

Anyway, I was thinking about all this and I realized I was still mostly happy about life. Right now is not easy or fun, but it is a stepping stone to a great future. Because I know that where I am going is good and will be worth the effort, right now isn’t so bad. It reminds me of hiking. Hiking is often challenging and not fun but I do it for the destination and the beauty on the way and it’s always worth it.

There is plenty of good in life too. I get to do fun things with my kids all day long. Lately I’ve read a novel, had friends over, visited a museum, did this. We are making cookies today. In just a few months, life will stop being transitory. Until then, I can still enjoy the small joys that are around me.

Camping and to the Beach

Last weekend we went camping. I had planned the trip for a while and waited for a rain free weekend. It rains too much out here…but we were lucky and had wonderful weather. In the two nights in the tent: everyone slept the night. Camped at Skidaway island, visited Savannah, swam at Tybee Island.  I have now swam in the Atlantic ocean, walked the cobblestone in Savannah, and camped under oaks covered in Spanish moss. I felt threatened on an early morning stroll by the growling of a suspected raccoon. I learned that now matter how much bug spray and sunscreen you think you’ve applied, it is probably not enough. I learned that crying abates in the car if I ignore it after all I can do. I learned the Monday after is too full of laundry and tired people to be any fun.

Sand, mosquitoes, sunburn, and occasional frustration were all a small price to pay for the beautiful time we had. Here’s some pictures to prove it. But only some:  I forgot to take pictures because I was enjoying myself.

I don’t think I’ve mentioned it here…but Curtis can sit up now. He’s still pretty tipsy and needs supervision, but can play sitting and not lying down or in the too small bumbo. 

Tilling

Here’s the question today: When should I till in my garden? I was talking to my dad about tilling. I’ve read in various places that tilling can be detrimental…but in a home garden it is a common practice to prepare sites for planting and get rid of weeds.

The short answer is you don’t need to till at all. If you want to, you can use tilling to incorporate organic matter during the initial site preparation, and to break up soils that are already compacted. Past that, I think it causes more harm than good. I’m going to ramble a bit and get into more specifics: feel free to stop reading if you aren’t into detailed explanations.

Tilling is thought to make the soil easier to work with (it doesn’t), control weeds, and incorporate organic matter. But there are also detrimental effects of tilling. These include propagating perennial weeds, bringing annual weed seed to the surface, decreasing earthworms and beneficial microorganism, deteriorating organic matter, destroying soil structure, injuring plant roots, and it also takes a lot of labor and effort.

Some of the perceived benefits aren’t as beneficial as they seem. The first misconception is that tilling will loosen the soil. Tilling actually destroys the soil structure. In farms that are frequently tilled, soil compaction actually increases.

The second misconception is that tilling gets rid of weeds. For some weeds, it does. But it can also increase the populations of other weeds. For instance, tilling quackgrass does a good job of chopping up the rhizomes and propagating the plant. After tilling, the quackgrass will come back more aggressively.

The last benefit of tilling is to incorporate organic matter. For initial bed preparation, tilling in organic matter can help it move down in the soil profile and improve soil health. But continued tilling will lessen the effects, as the organic matter deteriorates.

You don’t have to get very deep in the literature to realize that adopting no-till methods can be very beneficial. No-till systems have better aeration and drainage, more earthworms, and less soil erosion. Most of the research has been done in large-scale crops, but the same principles apply in the home garden.

Home gardeners have the added advantage that everything is small-scale. One issue in till vs no-till is that tilling can be a good weed control method. The other option in no-till systems is often herbicides. But with small-scale home garden, mulch and hand weeding work well.

The alternatives to tilling include:

  • Mulching: Includes organic mulch or plastic sheeting. Mulching will reduce weeds and help regulate water. Organic mulch also add organic matter to the soil. Plastic mulch raises soil temperature for earlier planting.
  • Smother: Use plastic sheeting, layers of corrugated cardboard or newspaper and organic mulch. I’ve used cardboard topped with a couple of inches of compost to kill off lawn. It takes some time, but does a great job of killing off whatever is underneath.
  • Top dressing: Instead of incorporating fertilizer or compost, just apply it to the top and let the earthworms and rainfall do the work. Plant roots are most concentrated in the top of the soil profile anyway.

Tilling can still be useful during the initial site preparation and to help break up soils that are already compacted. Whenever you till, make sure and apply a good layer of compost at the same time. Don’t be afraid to just ditch the tiller altogether: the soil will probably thank you.

*The picture has nothing to do with the post. I was just enjoying the flowers in my tiny garden. 

Random Ideas

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I made this poster to try to teach Peter the days of the week and to look forward to activities without the expectation that we are doing them in the next hour.Image

Don’t buy water colors. Just use food coloring and an ice cube tray. It was much easier for PB to work with.

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We froze the water colors and did a science day. I love gathering random household ingredients and mixing. This day we had oil, water, food coloring, colored ice and soap.

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Most things are more fun with food coloring.

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This is Samuel the Laminate preaching at the city of Zarahemla.

The Kids Smile

I love going through photos. Sorting and editing the best pictures is almost like editing my life. I get to focus on the smiles and good things. Times that are not great are trashed.

Life is normal. But normal is awesome when you have two cute kids. The weather isn’t as hot, so we’ve been playing outside. There are still plenty of mosquitoes, and we have the bites to prove it.

Some of the pictures are from Stone Mountain: we visited with friends on Saturday.

And just a hint to make this post prettier. Come to my actual site and click on a picture to enter the gallery setting on WordPress. The photos will be large and beautiful, as is intended.

Random Ideas

These homemade popsicles are the result of discovering a dislike to massive amounts of sweet frozen food.  We had coupons for free shushes at Sonic. A few sips into my green apple slush and I had enough sugar to last me the next few days. I still had a container of frozen sugar, so instead of tossing it, I re-froze it in an ice cube tray. On slush made the whole ice cube tray. Eighteen small popsicles is much better than one huge sugar rush. My dad might disagree (he can down massive amounts of anything that is sweet and frozen).

I saw this on another blog, and made it to try and get PB to eat new foods. (He is very picky.) In that regard, this banana hot dog was a failure. But I loved it. New favorite what-is-there-to-eat item.

Who knew that a container with wheat could be so much fun? We made dioramas with a wheat, oatmeal and pasta background.

 

Inexperienced Trimming

I cut my own hair. My hair was annoying me and I had no desire to take the time to go get it cut. So I pony-tailed my hair and went at it.  My method was simple, unoriginal. I made one ponytail at the nape of my neck and cut, and cut off layers in a separate ponytail stretched over the top of my head. Trimmed it up and here it is:

I like it just fine. My hair is naturally curly, and hides mistakes pretty well.  I might have hairstylists or others cringing. But I cringe over this:

If people prune shrubs with nothing but hedging shears, I can cut my own hair with kitchen scissors. Some things are better left to people who know what they are doing, like haircutting and pruning. But a lot of times it doesn’t matter: it will grow.

Messy Story, Happy Kids

At bath time, I was doing dinner dishes while Joe was bathing the kids. Not too long after they headed out on their pursuit of cleanliness, I hear a commotion…and soon after my husband appeared holding a naked, crying baby. Joe had undressed baby CD and PB ripped off his diaper and climbed in. Normal procedure, but PB had neglected to tell Daddy until after he had climbed in that he was poppy. The bathtub was filled with poop. At the same time CD, who was luckily not in the bath yet, peed all over my dear husband. Joe yelled to me for help, which made CD upset and he started crying.

We transfer the kids to the second bathtub and during the process CD peed on Joe again. I was laughing my head off after all that. I got the kids clean, Joe changed, and the original shower cleaned up easily. This story provides a good example of why potty training is good. But PB wants nothing to do with it.

Tuition was paid for the last time! Excitement! One more semester and we will finally be done with school! On the same note, I just bought tickets for the flight home for the kids and me. Just a few more months out here.

The Curious Garden

It’s fun when you find hidden gems among piles of normal stuff.  The Curious Garden, by Peter Brown was my gem in the large stack of picture books from the library. My kid preferred car/things-that-go books, but this is one of my favorite picture books I’ve ever read. It depicts the transformation of an industrialized city to a city filled with green living things.  Two large pictures depict the city. My kid preferred the first one with smokestacks and steel, but I loved the final one filled with green. It reminded me of projects like The High Line, and green roofs. Like the book depicted, life is better with gardens.