Wyoming

April 9, 2014Leave a comment

This is a quote from PB: “I have too much love, I need to hug you.”

We went and visited my sister for Conference weekend. PB was very excited to see his cousins. They exhausted each other with all their playing. Besides visiting, we went and played disc golf. I think disc golf is a great way to experience the landscapes of the area. Wyoming is windy and with hardly any trees and wide views.

We also enjoyed a free day at the local college. Their were tons of activities. We decided to split up, and each took a kid. I got to look at animals, dig in the sand, play balls and play dough with C. I was happy we split up, it meant I could spend more time focusing on my child instead of everyone else, and I didn’t have to wait on anyone (not my strong point).

(This picture isn’t from our visit. It’s just cute.)

Laundry Room Floor

April 8, 20142 Comments

Usually the decorative state of a laundry room doesn’t matter that much, but ours is also the hallway to get into the downstairs. I walked through there all time time. Out of all the room in our house it was the one that bugged me the most. I didn’t like a single thing about it. Boring, ill-painted (and damaged) walls, and awful stick on tiles. I hated the flooring. It was stained and ugly. So one day I started to see if we could get rid of it.

That started weeks of scraping off the stupid flooring. My husband got a good system down and did most of it. After a very short time, we had decided it really wasn’t worth all the effort. But when you start a demolition project, it is hard to change your mind. So we just lived like this for a month, and eventually it all got ripped out.

There was a good layer of adhesive left behind. I took a small section and scrubbed it off with a bunch of chemical, and then applied a coat of concrete stain. Just a little section to see if it would work out as I hoped. I was surprised and happy when it did. I wasn’t trying to do something that was unattainable!

I exposed myself to far too many chemicals one Saturday and scrubbed the rest of the adhesive off. That part didn’t actually end up taking more time than I imagined, but I would prefer not to ever have to deal with all the chemicals we used again. Final step was a couple of coats of concrete stain.

On hindsight, I would have not picked black, it shows dust and everything else far too much. (I bough the stain spur-of the moment on a home improvement store trip, so there wasn’t a lot of thought that went into color choice.) But, I am liking it much better than the stick on tiles. It was an inexpensive project, although it did take far too many labor hours.

Growing

March 28, 20141 Comment

It is spring so everything is growing outside. The kids are growing a ton too. PB surprises me sometimes because he is so tall (just under four feet), and he keeps getting taller. He’s pretty smart too–he can read and count to 100. C is funny because he has a long torso and short little legs. It is hard to get clothes that fit right.

This is mom admiring the flowers with C. I was happy this shrub turned out to be a forsythia, just because it meant I guessed right.

The boys went to the Zoo in Logan without me. It was nice.

Joe took this awesome picture.

Jumping in puddles in the rain. We like to get our feet wet after a good rainstorm.

Hammocks are the best.

Redeemed

March 27, 2014Leave a comment

Last week I talked about conscious. I have done many things I would rather take back. Sometimes the memory of what I did eats at me. I’ve felt dirty, unlovable, and guilty. Guilt feel horrible. But I can’t change what I’ve done, and I also can’t change my knowledge of right and wrong. I have to live with the knowledge that I am far from perfect, that I make mistakes and do things that I know harm those around me.

Even worse is addiction. Although I have not had any classical addictions, I still have my own little pet sins that I return to. Anger and distractions are horrible habits that I turn back to even when I know I shouldn’t be. Just writing about this makes me cringe. I want to change and do better, but sometimes it seems beyond me.

Luckily, I don’t have to live with the pain and guilt my mistakes. There is a path that can take me away from addictions, and can help me change over time. There is a power that enables me to do more than I can by myself. Power that can make up the difference of all my shortcoming, that can take away the sting of my guilt, that can bring me blessed forgiveness and strength.

It is through Jesus Christ and the wonderful atonement. I rejoice to live in a world where so many people know of the redeeming love of Christ. I also know that there are many that do not know that His love extends even to dark sins, that we are never beyond His healing power.

If we want to change and no longer live with guilt, there is way out. The Atonement extends to everyone.

This is a short series outlying the fundamental beliefs I have. For more see:
Truth is Absolute
Conscience

A Quick Book Review

March 26, 2014Leave a comment

I like to still read beginning gardening books and articles, talk to gardeners, go to gardening classes. It is a good way to keep up on my gardening knowledge, and see what people are thinking as well. Not everything I hear and read is accurate. My cousin commented on my previous post, “There is so much misinformation and pseudo science out there. Thanks for making the world a more informed and scientific place.” It is very true, gardening advice is full of pseudo science. I would love to go over a lot of common advice that needs to be re-evaluated…but it’s already been done. There is an excellent book out there, that I believe should be in every gardener’s library.

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The book is Decoding Gardening Advice: The Science Behind the 100 Most Common Recommendations by Jeff Gillman and Meleah Maynard

I bought this book on a Timber Press monthly special. (By the way, Timber Press specials are the best. Every month they have three e-books that are 3.99 or less. I have bought a load of gardening books all for around $3.50 just by checking up on the specials. It isn’t just old or unwanted books either, I’ve got some newer releases and some bestsellers from there.You can sign up for their mailing list and get notified. Can you really have enough Timber Press books as a gardener? I think not. And I am in no way compensate for this statement, although if they would like to send me free books they are more than welcome too.)

After my last post, I started to look through this book again. It is well organized, so in my case I was skipping through the book instead of reading it straight through. It is divided into chapters that include soils, water, pests, mulch, flowers, trees, vegetables and fruit, and lawn. It is presented simply, sorting advice in each chapter into good advice, advice that’d debatable, and advice that’s just wrong. In a glance you can quickly tell the value of a certain piece of advice, and then go on to read the details.

I did wish they would site specific studies and articles to back up their stance one everything, but that would also make it not as user friendly and is probably not of interest to most people. (An appendix would be nice.)

It Gets Worse Before it Gets Better

March 25, 20142 Comments

Our backyard has never looked great. When we bought the house, I was fully aware the yard was a fixer upper. It has sat unchanged and only minimally maintained for decades. In contrast, the inside of the house was in pretty good shape, and had a lot of improvements done recently. I preferred this. I’m not a big fan or expert in flooring, but I do love a good and personalized garden. I wanted a yard where instead of ripping out decent landscaping to get what I wanted, I could just start from scratch.

One of the eyesores in our yard (besides the meatball shrubs that were promptly removed), was an old shed in the back. It had a bit of rustic charm to it, expect for the fact that it was filled with thirty year old garbage and leaning about twenty degrees to the west. At first, I couldn’t even comfortably get in the shed because the lean prevented the door from opening all the way.

Doors are easily removed, so I popped off the door and started sorting things. There were some cool finds in the shed–the most interesting was a set of vintage bikes. A lot of it was simply old garbage that should have just been taken to the dump rather than stored in a shed for decades. There were blanket and other fabric things covered in cat urine, old motors, air conditioning units, cardboard, jars (and not cool ones), torn up flooring, and even a sink. Everything in the shed was placed outside the shed for eventual disposal, free-cycling. or re-purposing.

Joe spent a Saturday ripping off old boards, and finally, knocking the shed over. No more shed. Happy day. Except…

We are now living in a junk yard. At least before all the garbage was cheerfully disguised as a rustic shed. Now it just looks like garbage.

Our city does spring clean-up with dumpsters and double garbage days in a month, and we are planning to dispose of much of the junk then. We also want to re-use some of the wood for the chicken coop, which is why we torn it down now and not later. I’ve already free-cycled some items (I had about 5 people in a half hour clamoring for an old window and screen door), and we will spend the next month sorting garbage.

I thought I was a gardener not a garbage sorter, but sometimes the jobs just overlap.

Stamps

March 23, 2014Leave a comment

I love spring. We can spend lots of time outside enjoying our new sandbox, and playing. I even managed to beat Joe at disc golf last Saturday. We do play so that I score everything on a par 4, and he scores on a par 3. So he’s still a lot better than me.

I had fun with this activity. We used craft foam to make stamps. It is pretty simple: just draw a picture in the foam of whatever you want the stamp to be, pressing firmly to make a good groove. PB was able to do it. Joe also had carved some stamps from gum erasers earlier that I got out. The stamp pads were liquid watercolor and baby wipes.

Sticky Table

March 21, 2014Leave a comment

We did a sticky table that was a lot of fun. It is contact paper taped sticky side up to a board. PB liked to run across it at first, and then we matched colors on it. C saw me taking pictures and wanted to try.

He took this picture. Not too bad.

And then we turned the camera around and had a blast taking pictures of ourselves.

Tilling

March 20, 20141 Comment

I was talking with my father-in-law about gardening, and we started talking about the soil. His garden is quite rocky, which is common for the area, and he was frustrated that even with years of tilling the soil had not improved. I think it is a very common practice to till the soil before planting every spring. Many people believe that tilling will help the soil become more fluffy and workable. (And if you want to be fancy about it, you can use the word tilth.) It makes sense, tear up the soil, increase the tilth. But…

TILLING IS BAD FOR THE SOIL.

I know it is done all the time, and modern agriculture and certainly home gardeners religiously till. But I believe home gardeners do this simply because they don’t understand what they are doing. There are many reasons to till, some of which I will discuss below:

1)The primary one and most acceptable is incorporating organic matter. If you are dumping on a load of compost or growing a cover crop, you can go ahead and till or work it in. The benefits of the organic matter will likely be greater than the downside of tilling. Even so, organic matter can be applied to the surface of the soil and will gradually incorporate itself.

2)Tilling is often used for weed control. But on the small scale homeowners have, there are many other better options. Hand pulling and mulch are my favorites. Tilling some weeds can actually help them come back bigger and better.

3)Tilling is used to get rid of compaction. This can work; however it doesn’t address the cause of compaction. It would be far better to have dedicated pathways than to keep tilling year after year.

Here are some reasons not to till:

1)Tilling destroys structure. Structure is what ultimately makes our soil workable, not easily compacted, and allows for the proper flow of air and water. Tilling doesn’t help create structure: worms, critters, and plants do. Tilling will destroy the structure of the soil, and in effect decreases tilth. It might make the soil nice and fluffy for a few days, but it doesn’t last and overtime it starts creating hardpans, and more compaction.

Soi Collage

2)Tilling inhibit soil organisms over time. Would you like someone to come rip through you home with a tiller? Neither do all the organisms that live in the soil. And these organisms are awesome: they enable plants to get water, and nutrients more readily, fight off disease, add nutrients to the soil, and create structure and tilth.

Here is how I think of it. I have my original soil, with a good layer of compost on top. If I till it, it all gets mixed together. If I leave it alone, than I can start increasing my soil depth by continuing adding organic matter and have a nice rich, organic top.

Which would you want?

Seed Starter

March 20, 2014Leave a comment

The seed starter was reborn this year. The shop lights we had used previously were used to light up the garage/shop. I bought some smaller florescent lights which were hardwired to a light timer.

It only will hold two flats of seedlings, but that is usually plenty for our garden. And I found a great little dome to use to germinate seeds: an old cake tray leftover from a birthday party. You might also notice the tin-foil: I was trying to direct the light to the seedling instead of lighting up the room they were in.

So far, I’ve started asparagus, lettuce, and cabbage that are all doing well and close to transplanting. Just seeded are tomatillos, peppers and more lettuce. More will be seeded later.