Evenings

Lately, I’ve been trying to avoid aimlessly watching TV at night as a family. This has required us to get pretty creative in how we do use our time, but I’m enjoying spending better time with my family. Some of the things we’ve done include:

Building a toy city

Making sock puppets

Going on walks (which it’s getting cold and dark to do this much more)

There’s also dancing, reading, and playing games. (Hide and seek or tag for Peter. Sometimes Joe and I will break out the chess set. I might actually beat him one day). We also were able to go to my brother’s basketball game, and visit some family and play bored games.

What do you do for fun in the evenings that keeps you away from the TV?

Baby Coming!

I’m 19 weeks pregnant. And I’m just a little bummed because I do not get to find out what I am having for another two weeks. I want a boy to be friends with Peter and ’cause I like boys. And I want a girl so I can dress her up all cute (but not frilly!) and maybe ever make adorable girl dresses. And then I would have one of each. Hand-me-downs are a non-issue too. Peter’s got the boy stuff covered, and two baby girl cousins make up for the girl stuff. I’m good either way. (Note here: it is already a girl in my mind. But this “motherly intuition” could be completely wrong.)

What do you think?

And pregnancy has been amazing. I did sleep a lot the first trimester, but I wasn’t sick. And I have been moody, but not too bad. (Sorry to my dear Grandma who gets to deal with all my moods!) I’m also bigger than I was last time. Oh well.  I have maternity clothes from not only my pregnancy, but some from both my sisters as well. It’s awesome to start wearing some shirts I adored from last time, or admired on my sisters. Oh and I accidentally made myself a belly band while attempting this skirt. I cut the waist band too small for a skirt, but the tighter fit works well for a belly band.  I should have made one last pregnancy too: I’m liking it a lot.

Baby is moving, finally. I have been feeling strange things in my tummy for quite a while but it was never definitely baby movements until about a week ago. It’s the best part of pregnancy.

See? I have a belly.

Fall Pruning

I went to a neighborhood clean-up a few weeks ago and set to work cleaning up the yard of my 96 year-old neighbor. It was actually quite a pretty yard–she still goes out and gardens, although lately the weeds have gotten away from her. I set to work weeding and cutting back perennials and doing other fall task. Then I started freaking out because people were pruning horribly wrong.

There’s some basic pruning rules that were being ignored. I’m not going to try to overly explain them here, but they include cutting back to a bud or branch angle. This is apparently not common knowledge, but it should be. It is included in about every book or instruction on pruning, but maybe it also needs to be attached to every set of loppers sold at the store.  I went over and tried to show people how to do this a bit, and also cleaned up some cuts.

But the main mistake was that people were pruning in the fall. In our climate, fall is simply not a good time to prune. With winter coming, a fall pruning can make a lot of shrubs and trees less able to deal with the pending cold. Don’t add it to the list of fall clean-up tasks. The only pruning I would do is very gentle pruning of things like shrubs that are attacking all people who attempt to greet your front door. Mostly, just let it wait until later winter to early spring, or whenever is appropriate for the shrub. (That might require a bit of research. It’s better than killing or mutilating your plant.)

This is a lilac. I attempted to clean it up a bit, but it’s horrid. A shrub should never look like this and especially not in the fall. A good pruning right after it blooms should help it out more, but for now the damage is done.

Halloween

Peter is finally old enough to celebrate Halloween. I  haven’t enjoyed Halloween since I dressed up in spandex as a super hero my freshman year in college. Really it’s been since my childhood. But now I have a little kiddo to dress up and take trick or treating and it’s much more fun. Peter was Peter Pan. Easy costume, and after watching the movie and getting the hat he was pretty excited about dressing up like Peter Pan too. We went to two ward parties for Halloween, carved and painted a pumpkin (that was also Peter’s first experience with paints), and took a ride on the Nightmare Express. (That was the best free Halloween activity I’ve been to. You go ride a model train, but they decorate it awesome.)

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Cleaning

vacuum

I was thinking I’d write about the way I clean. There seems to be a lot of books, columns and other advice on how to keep a clean home. I’ve never found it that hard, just interesting. I’d thought I’d share some of my tips.

Clean up after yourself. Don’t leave the dishes until later or ignore the spill on the couch. Clean up after one project before moving on to another, etc. I can’t imagine getting behind on dishes or anything else for that matter. Not cleaning up after myself is way too much work. For instance: I can wipe off the spill on the stove in about 10 seconds when I do it, or wait until it gets caked on and spend five minutes scrubbing at it. My husband will help with the dishes right after dinner, but he’s not home the next day if I leave them in the sink. Cleaning up after myself also takes very little time (five minutes here and there), and avoids hours of built up work later on.

Be organized. Have a place for everything. Get rid of stuff you don’t use or at least put it out of the way. (We’ve moved a lot and it’s really helped eliminate our junk.) And everyone has piles: the trick is to find a place where the piles are out of the way. I stack stuff on my computer desk, but it’s underneath where no-one can see. Go through everything occasionally too.  I like to organize, although I never stress too much. My drawers can still be cluttered, I just want to know that I can find scissors in there or have a place to put my half-finished sewing project that’s not on the kitchen cabinet.

If you can do those first two things the house stays decently clean. Really, how hard is it to clean up after yourself? Not rocket science there. For organization, it’s also not that hard. If you struggle, just go to somewhere like Ikea to get ideas. Getting rid of stuff helps tons too.

Now for all the other cleaning tasks, I’ve tried two different things and like them both. It just depends on my mood.

Method 1: Besides cleaning up after yourself, do one extra task a day. For me this is usually divided into bathrooms, kitchen, dust/vacuum, and laundry. Sometimes I’ll put in an organizing day, or a day for an extra cleaning task like cleaning carpets.

Method 2: Pick one day and just get everything done. This usually takes up less time total, but more time on the day I do it. I usually get all out of order with the way I do tasks, but it cuts down on the time. For instance, last time I cleaned the kitchen cabinets, dusted, and cleaned bathroom surfaces with a multi-purpose cleaner. Then I swept, vacuumed (which eliminated the use of a dustpan), and finished by mopping. I also cleaned up a few dirty places on the carpet when I was done. I focused on a piece of cleaning equipment instead of a room, which I think saves a lot of time. The broom only comes out once etc.

I still always like new ideas. Even though I don’t struggle much with cleaning I like to read things I come across and always find new ideas. So go ahead share your thoughts on the subject.

Tree Staking

I went to a park up in Ceder Hills (the park was really neat with a triple story playground). While there I noticed a gorgeous tree with a trunk that looked like this:

This is after I attacked the girdling wire with a pair of hand pruners. The tree was not badly staked to begin with, but that was years ago. They did cover the wires, but the material they used has degraded, and the wire has started to grow into the tree. Without intervention, the tree will be girdled and die. Unfortunetly this is pretty common.

I wrote about tree staking a while ago, and how I staked a few trees that needed staking. If you go and look, it is very different than what you normally see. The most common mistakes made with tree staking is:

  • Staking too often: Many trees simply don’t need staking. A tree should only be staked if it is wobbly or tilting to one side.
  • Staking too tightly: When finished the tree should still be able to move about, just prevented from tilting too far in one direction.
  • Leaving it on too long: Staking material should always be removed after the first year. That’s the main problem behind the staking job above.

I contacted the parks department and they at least said they send someone out to see if the trees are properly staked. The trees actually shouldn’t be staked at all anymore–but hopefully the problem will get fixed. Better than my pair of hand pruners did.

Fall Garden Finale

I  dug out my veggie garden over a week ago. The first freeze is coming tonight, which is several week past the average. It has been cold enough to harm the cucumbers and melons, but the tomatoes were still going strong when I yanked them. I was done with tomatoes and had extra time and beautiful weather, so I put the garden to bed. Felt wonderful. I had a large tomato forest going on. The tomatoes chocked out the peppers and eggplants nearby. The yellow pear was all over everything. Some branches were over 6 feet long–I didn’t bother to keep up with staking and pruning so it was a lovely mess I was happy to tear out.

Pulling out the Garden

Looking back on the year, I  loved my Cherokee Purple tomatoes. My other varieties, romas, fourth-of-july, and yellow pear also did well. The other heirloom I planted, Great White was a little late but good after it started producing. All my peppers and eggplants did not produce well because of poor placement. The potatoes did okay, but I think potatoes had been planted in the same spot for too many years beforehand (not my garden before so I didn’t know). I think they got a wilt disease early on and would have done better with some proper crop rotation. Onions and leeks were less than spectacular, they mostly didn’t ever catch on after transplanting. The blue hubbard and butternut squash did great. The blue hubbard squash are decorating my front porch. It might take a while to break into them. I planted two cucumbers–a striped Armenian and a regular aremenina. We had loads of cucumbers even with horrible powdery mildew.  The best melon wasn’t the two I planted (they did okay, not great), but a volunteer that sprang up and produced eight good melons. Beets did well, lettuce was good in the spring, and the chard was always there, I just didn’t bother to pick it.

That was a bit long, but it was a great garden year. I’m also glad it’s over now. Time for new projects.

Two Week Walk Challenge

So apparently it’s already been two weeks since the walk challenge from This Grandmother’s Garden. I didn’t necessarily go on a walk everyday, but I did go outside. It was beautiful. I made it hiking three times–once up to Battle Creek just up the hill, once on several hikes scattered through Nebo Loop and the final hike on Saturday to Silver Lake up American Fork Canyon. Fall comes and goes so quickly and I’m glad I didn’t miss it. The one thing I do still miss is the maple of Cache Valley. We moved away from there two years ago and in some ways all the fall leaves were a little disappointing because it wasn’t the red maple forests that are up there. I did discover that scrub oak does not necessarily just turn brown. I found orange, gold, and even bright red scrub oak that made up for the lesser amount of maples.

Many of my walks also involved parks due to the nature of having a two-year-old to entertain. At one park I was pleasantly surprised to find some old pear trees. I have no idea what varieties they are–but they included Asian-type and other delectable finds. I went ahead a grabbed a bundle and have been enjoying them at home. I also found gorgeous sunsets, changing leaf colors, fall blooming flowers, and interesting things for my two-year-old who usually accompanies me.

Here’s just some of the pictures I took. There are more in previous posts too.

Silver Lake

We’ve gone on lots of walks and trips to the park recently because the weather has been incredible. I doubt it will last much longer, so the more time spent outside the better. Yesterday we went on what will probably be the last long hike of the season. We hiked up to Silver Lake in American Fork Canyon. The leaves were every color imaginable and the hike was beautiful. I’m not in very good shape though, and it felt a little too long. Peter slept through a large protion–he was a very tired kid. He’s also turning into quite a good hiker. He can go almost a mile by himself and no longer gets too distracted by everything. The hike leaves less than three miles until I hit 100 miles hiking this year. I’m excited that I’m going to make my goal.

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Enjoying Fall

We’ve had the most amazing autumn weather. It’s been wonderful to go outside and be able to spend time on hikes, walks, and gardening. I took a hike up Battle Creek (just up from my home) this past week and also drove the Nebo Loop down south. The Nebo Loop was absolutely beautiful and full of reds, oranges, and yellows. Even the usually brown scrub oak had a golden color to it. Here are pictures:

Get out and go see Autumn. It’s amazing how fast it pops up. Last week nothing was that interesting: now all the trees are starting to turn colors.