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I told myself I wouldn’t re-arrange the upstairs furniture for about a year. At least not until we finished the basement. Everything was just fine, and moving furniture around was a waste of time. I made it four months.

My resolve disappeared. Re-arranging furniture is like getting a new house. It’s fun to try something different. I’m always looking for ways to make it better, and overall it’s a pretty quick project. I still feel like I lost a bet though. But it’s to myself, so I kind of still won too, right?

The office is back to being the dining room, and the large living/dining room is now just a living room.

living area

Before

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Now

Is it better? Yes, for a big family party. I like the dining room in the back, it is closer to the kitchen. It still could use a bit of fine tuning, and I’ll decide more after I live with it for awhile. I have realized that nothing is perfect. Maybe I got a bit closer.

And we finished-ish the stairs. I’ll get more pictures soon!

The Flu

I didn’t get my flu shot this year. I’m not anti-vaccination or anything. (The decision to be anti-vaccines is frankly stupid but we don’t need to go into that, right? I want to live in a world without polio and small pox and even chicken pox and rotovirus. Which means vaccines…for everybody.) I’m just a healthy-in my twenties-and not working in heathcare individual. Flu-shot was not a priority. It did make it on my list a couple times, but was too much a bother.

The baby did get his flu shot. Twice, as he was supposed to. Thank goodness for well child checks that make sure that this mom is staying current on vaccines. (Which to me is the main reason for well child checks. Because I can tell my child is healthy, and I usually don’t need a doctor to tell me that too. But kids do need their vaccines. See above.)

Saturday we had such wonderful plans. All of which were shortly cancelled. Peter was sick. Sleep-all-day, high temperature, icky sick. We stayed home and worked on home projects. It was actually really great.

Then Sunday, I got sick. I thought it would just be a day or so, but one day turned into four. And Curtis got sick, and lastly Joe got sick.

The flu is awful. I didn’t have headaches, tummy trouble, or any real symptoms besides a sore throat. But I didn’t exactly want to move either. My body would vary between fevers and chills and the best stage: asleep. I didn’t do anything for three days except drink strange warm beverages that might make me feel better. (I think warm water would have done the trick. I firmly believe that home remedies have their place, but a lot of that place is to get a good placebo effect.) Well, I’m a mom to young children so my not doing anything is still doing a lot.

Yesterday I felt better. It was so awesome! There was more to life than surviving until the next nap. Playing with kids was actually fun. I could clean! And make chicken noodle soup, and read a book and get excited about things.

Joe (Or Dad. I always call him Joe but then he gets a bit upset because the kids start calling him Joe too.) should be better tomorrow. And we can go back to living a normal life.

At one point I was really mad because I was sick. But the great thing about being sick is you realize how wonderful it is to be healthy once you get better. I’ve been very blessed in my life. My health history is still extremly short. When Peter started to get sick, I mentioned to Joe that I had not been really sick the entire time we have been married…and longer. I was due for a bout of the flu, and it just made me grateful that I’ve had a healthy life.

But it mostly taught me that I should prioritize my flu shot more. I don’t ever want to get the flu again.

2015

We started and ended in the same place. No moving, no new babies, no job changes. Since we weren’t doing anything else, we started to re-model our house. I organized a family reunion for the Braithwaites in the summer, and we also had a camp out with my family. Peter started kindergarten and played soccer. All the boys took swim lessons. We went on a trip to Denver. I also volunteered at the community garden and raised a baby. (The baby made a lot of other goals non-existent.)

Here are my favorite pictures from the year:

One Year Old

H had a birthday! As the youngest of three and also have a birthday close to Christmas, his birthday was easy to overlook. We had a birthday with friends and cake and ice cream, and he received a few pop up books. He adores them and then tries to rip them apart. They have to usually be hidden, because if he sees it he wants to read it. Again and again and again. 

H is my skinniest kid. All three of my kids were the exact same height at a year old, but he’s five pounds lighter. He’s also by far the best walker. He’s already been walking for about a month and toddles around everywhere–including up stools and stairs and anywhere else he can climb!

He loves sitting in chairs that are his size, still nurses a bundle, has just barely started sleeping well at night, and loves playing with his brothers.

Holidays

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Christmas. We did all our normal traditions. On Christmas Eve, my parents and sister came over. We walked up to the outdoor nativity and listened to the narration, and then came back home for presents. Christmas Day was Santa, more presents, and than lunch with Joe’s parents. I think the kids all liked their presents, and we all had a good time. My present was a yoga sling, and everyone has had fun with that.

On New Year’s Eve we had a party that night that involved popper fireworks, balloons and a movie. We had a countdown at about 8:30 with the children and set them off to bed. It was a lot of fun.

My sister came up the next day to visit. The high that day was 20 degrees. We were a bit nervous about going sledding but decided to go for it anyway. After a bit of a cold start, we found a hill that was better suited for our kids and stayed far long than I anticipated. Some of the adults even got a little snowshoeing in around the area.

Snowman

The crafts I do have to be quick, simple and cheap. Otherwise, I lack the desire and patience needed to finish the craft well.

I made snowman kits as gifts to a few of our friends and neighbors.

The kit had a scarf cut from some spare knit fabric, buttons, a carrot and coal eyes. I was quite proud of my eyes, although they are pretty redneck. I made them out of black duct tape.

Stair Teaser

In our home, there were the most awful stairs ever. They are the stairs that kicked off our re-model project because the tall people living here were tired of hitting their heads or ducking. The stairs that have been occasionally slipped on with cheap carpet. The stairs that have walls that nobody bothered to do more than put on a coat of primer, not even adding a layer of texture or mud.

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After  we lowered them down so we didn’t hit our head, I decided I did not want to keep big-box special awful tan carpet on them. I had seen blog post of people who removed the carpet and had painted or stained them, and thought we could do the same. This is what we were left with after carpet removal:

Painting them didn’t seem like a good option. They were not in good shape. There were gaps, uneven boards, rough surfaces. I had looked at stair restoration kits, but they added up to more than I wanted to spend.

I despaired for bit, but got creative and found a solution. First of all, Joe attacked the stairs with a hammer and took out no less than fifty nails that some idiot, incompetent or drunk construction worker with a nail gun had nailed in our stairs with little regard to where they went. They were not holding anything together, but were making the stairs quite squeaky.

After nailing in less than half that amount, almost all the gaps in the stairs were gone, and the stairs no longer sounded like stepping on a mouse nest.

Joe and I took a trip to big-box store. (It was a date with a babysitter, because doing so with kids is a nightmare. But then I feel sheepish that my dates are to stores, because that’s what my parents did growing up and I thought it was kinda lame, but now I’m doing it.) Then I did my work of taking the kids away for an entire day and Joe worked on the stairs and I came back to this:

Out of all the things we’ve done to the house, this was probably the biggest transformation. It’s not done yet at all; one main reason is because the can of stain we bought was mis-labeled, halting the process of staining the new treads.

I watched stair kit restoration videos, and checked online stock and googled a bit. I came up with the idea of resurfacing the back with wainscot beadboard (about $25 for the whole sheet and we had extra), and putting on new stair treads (about $100 for pine stair treads). The stair treads did raise up the stairs by one inch, but there was actually an extra inch at the top stair anyway after creating the new landing.

I’ve got more in store for these stairs, just as soon as we get the right stain color.

Snow

It’s snowed. A lot. Most people love it or hate it. I could get annoyed at the slippery ice, dangerous roads, and the need to bundle up if I go somewhere.

But there is quiet and white and beauty and I choose to love it. I love going out, often in the dark, when the snow is lightly coming down and covering everything with a blanket. Everything is still, movement is slow, soft. It is peaceful, clean. I love to shovel snow, for the opportunity to work outside even when there is no gardening to do.

The kids love it too. They bundle on snow gear, or ignore the fact that it is freezing and go outside without coats on. They’ve shoveled paths through the yard, come in crying because they have snow down their coat only to shortly go back outside. We’ve sled down hills together, and even Henry was crying when it was time to go home. Even though he was cold, he wanted to sled down the hill one more time, and faster was better. SAMSUNG CAMERA PICTURESSAMSUNG CAMERA PICTURESSAMSUNG CAMERA PICTURESSAMSUNG CAMERA PICTURES

Coats

We keep all the coats, backpacks, etc in the kitchen. It was messy, hard to find anything, and it didn’t look great.

before

I had thrown up some coat racks and shelves without any real thought. There was a lot of room for improvement. First step was to get rid of all the mess.

And take down all the stuff that wasn’t working.

After brainstorming for awhile, I decided to use premade crates that are available at craft stores. The kids and I painted them with paint I had on hand. It was a good project for the kdis because I wanted a rough finish paint job anyway. I sanded it a bit after. We hung up the crates and I added some coat hooks.

Looks great, but will it effectively hold all our junk… during winter, when we all have multiple coats, etc?

It’s doing a pretty good job. Every person has their own crate, with one extra that is mostly used as a charging station. I think it looks great and more importantly it is doing a much better job at organizing all our junk. Not bad for a project that cost about $60 and only took 2-3 hours.